Supersize this...

There are a lot of people
that like Big Macs, fur coats and Wine Gums
in this world...
but once you learn how they are made,
you tend to become less thrilled
with the notion of enjoying either of them.


I have always had no problem
accepting the changes in my life
regardless if I wanted them or not...
I may not like them or completely disagree
with them altogether but as far as accepting things for what they are, no problem.

I have ALWAYS had a serious beef with the manner in which changes occur or decisions are made however.

And that's what pisses me off royally.

I don't mind decisions being made that may or may not alter my life, in fact I applaud it.

Change is good. Without it, you never stumble upon things you like that you never knew before.

I do mind quite a bit why and how decisions are made though...always have, always will.

If I can seriously question the way a decision has been reached or why there was even a need for a decision in the first place, then I am left little choice but to question the final verdict's validity.

Even if I fully agree with the decision, I will still hold doubt.

Some may call that second guessing or any one of a hundred things...

I call it trust.

We doubt products once we learn how they are made, so why should our opinions or decisions be any different?

Knowing what led to a decision being made can save a lot of misunderstanding and in some cases...even save your soul.